Saturday, April 26, 2014

To EG or Not to EG




Post by Lara

23 April 2013

*Note- This is another one of those posts designed for people looking into Peace Corps or already planning to volunteer.  If that's not you, it may be boring. If that is you, "EG" means "Early Generation" and is just one of the many, many acronyms you will learn and use on an annoyingly frequent basis as a PCV. (Oh there's another one!)

Before we got our invitation to serve in Sierra Leone, we were asked whether we would be willing to join an “Early Generation” Peace Corps post—one that is either just starting or just re-opening after a closure (Sierra Leone being the second variety, but since the closure lasted 18 years, our program was completely revamped from the previous one).  We knew when we said yes to this opportunity that we might be getting into a tougher than average Peace Corps experience (although, “tougher” implies that some PC assignments are easy—they’re not, and I don’t think anyone signs up to volunteer expecting a cake walk).  Still, we were up for whatever adventure Peace Corps had in store for us, so we said yes—with the knowledge that the only thing we knew for sure was that we were about to have 2 unpredictable and unforgettable years. 

Certainly that rang true.  When we found out we were assigned to Sierra Leone, all I could think of was the movie Blood Diamond and an Amnesty International campaign about child soldiers.  Kevin says his first thought was, “I don’t know where that is,” followed by visions of coffee and diamonds after he did a quick Google search.  We knew that Sierra Leone had gone through a civil war, that it was deemed a “post-conflict” post, and that the Peace Corps program in the country was pretty new.  Beyond that, we did our best to prepare ourselves by keeping open minds and letting the knowledge come with experience. 

Serving in a post-conflict country is probably different for every conflict.  In Sierra Leone, it seems most everyone dealt with some very painful and scary experiences and wants nothing more than to put them in the past and live in a peaceful country from here on out.  We were told right away that it’s best not to ask people about the war—to “let them come to you,” and try to be as supportive as possible if and when friends decide to open up about their lives during the war.  For the most part, those moments are few and far between, or occasionally someone might mention the war in a third-person, detached sort of way.  For example, one night when the moon was shining especially brightly, our neighbor turned to us and said, “during the war, this was the kind of night that soldiers traveled, so they wouldn’t need to use torches or lights.”  In general, this is the only way the war is treated—as a historical occurrence that applied only tangentially to the people that we live and work alongside.  We know that truthfully, the memories are probably too bitter and upsetting to be relived all the time, and we try to respect that fact.

The other side of the Early Generation coin is that the staff and organization of the post are still figuring themselves out, which has several implications for volunteers.  It can mean that we have less oversight and more freedom to define our position and allocate our time.  It can also mean that staff are newer to working with Americans and don’t yet know how to interact with us, how to view our relationship, or what is expected of them in their professional roles.  This means that you might call the staff member you guess can answer your question, and get passed around in a circle or up the administrative ladder in a very frustrating game of hot potato that leaves you begging for the kind of service you had the last time you visited the BMV in the states.  Additionally, even though volunteers may have more freedom, the post may also choose to make an example out of any one of us who gets caught breaking rules, and since we’re among the first groups of volunteers, we could very easily find ourselves on the chopping block, should a scenario arise where we’re found to be violating a policy.

When it comes to services for volunteers provided by Peace Corps (that’s mail, medical care, mental health support, feedback on your reporting, and safety, to name a few categories), EG volunteers should expect to run into difficulties.  For instance, our mail system is spotty at best. Packages get lost or tampered with, and we haven’t yet isolated where this is happening (the airport, the post office, in the Peace Corps office, and/or at drop-off locations) in order to adequately minimize it.  We’re working on it.  We’ve been “working on it” since I got here.  It’s better now than it was then, but packages still go missing. 

It may sound like the disorganization that’s inevitable in an EG post is a daunting issue for volunteers, and it is, but what are Peace Corps volunteers if not forward-thinking, innovative, and ready to step up to a challenge?  At an EG post, you get to play a role in training and conditioning staff members, teaching them how to work with Americans, making suggestions that will actually be heard, and filling in gaps as you see them.  Kevin and I have played personal roles in shaping training sessions, editing our post’s cook book, creating resources for fellow volunteers, and working directly with staff to solve internal problems.    As much as it can make us want to pull our hair out when dealing with these situations, helping to make the system better for the next volunteer bolsters our own self-confidence and gives us real-world experience that will undoubtedly serve us in our post-Peace Corps lives.  Coming from a job where I was a certified trainer of new staff members, I feel right at home working with administrative staff on how to make our post more volunteer-friendly.

For anyone reading this who is weighing the choices now, here are a few thoughts.  If you have expectations that your Peace Corps post will be greatly involved in your service by checking in with you, responding quickly to issues, and treating you with the prompt and respectful attention that we Americans expect from support staff in any setting, know that an EG post may be working out the kinks in all of those areas, and may expect you to play a role in the kink-working-out process.  Also, for anyone with medical issues that require regular attention or medication that can’t be interrupted, an EG post could be very challenging—we know one volunteer who had to be “evacuated” back to the US in order to get medications that our medical unit knew she was taking, but for whatever reason did not refill in time for the volunteer to take it continually.  In a non-EG post, these kinds of problems probably came up early on, but because they happened to someone else, you will (hopefully) be saved from being that volunteer whose service was affected by it. One role that EG volunteers play is in helping the post develop into a place that will run more smoothly and effectively in future years, when it's no longer considered "EG". 

Before I sat down to write this post, Kevin and I informally polled our group and asked our fellow volunteers whether, if they had the choice to make over again, they would agree to go to an Early Generation post.  Of the 25 or so volunteers I asked, all but 3 of them said they would definitely say yes to EG.  The 3 who wouldn’t all had issues with the unstructured (or under-structured) nature of the post and the resulting pressure that’s put on volunteers to advocate for themselves, provide their own structure, and build up current staff members.  Though I can’t speak for all 22 of the other volunteers, I know that I have enjoyed the freedom and autonomy afforded us here, and I’ve taken advantage of the opportunity to be a part of deciding what our post is going to be like, what it will focus on, and how staff members and volunteers will move forward together.  I can honestly say that from the little I know of non-EG posts, my volunteer experience would have been completely different had we been sent to a more entrenched program.  The challenges are tough, but like I said—who joins the Peace Corps expecting an easy 2 years?
 

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Electronic Update (22 months)

Post By Kevin

Disclaimer

For various reasons, we brought a lot of different electronics.  You do not have to bring any electronics if you don’t want to.  You will have to keep in mind that most sites will have a charging station or a cell tower (which acts as a charging center) and you will be able to keep most things charged for an easy Le 1000 ($0.25) per item.  Lara’s father, and electrical engineer, wanted us to make sure that we were charging at home, so he sent us with a roll-up 26W solar panel that we use to charge car batteries.  We then use a 140W inverter that was designed to plug into the cigarette outlet in a car.  It has been extremely convenient, because we can keep our phones, iPod, and laptop charged at home most of the time, but this kind of system is by no means necessary.  If you come here with nothing in the way of electronics, you will have the opportunity to buy smart phones, radios, solar panels, mp3 players, lights, and just about anything you want short of a computer (too expensive here!).  Don’t sweat it if you just want to plan to buy these things in-country.

Acer Aspire One

I could not have been happier with this choice of computer.  It’s super lightweight, easy to travel with, and quite a durable little thing.  Two years in and it’s still kicking with great battery life!  The only problem we’ve run into is hard disk space and processing time.  Unfortunately the problem of processing time is not easily fixed (installing more ram); hard disk space can be easily supplemented with external space (1TB hard drives are pretty inexpensive now and I wish I had one so badly.  Right now we’re working with 1 500GB and 1 250GB external to pair with our 500GB internal.  Turns out whenever PCVs get together, we share movies and TV shows and now we everything is full and we’re working with flash drives).  Lara and I have been able to watch four to five hours of video at night if we want and have since taken advantage of this nearly every night for the two years of service.

If you’re on the fence about whether or not to bring a computer and/or a smart phone, I personally would highly recommend it.  You have to do quarterly evaluation for Peace Corps and having your own computer to work on it and submit it from site is extremely convenient (internet at site depends on your reception.  Internet is still dial up in this country and is troublesome at best).  I know the people that brought smart phones or bought them here were extremely happy with their choice.  The internet tends to run a bit faster on the little guys and they are great for quick things like checking your email. 

Kindle

Having a way to read 1600 books without having a massive book shelf is so wonderful. The Peace Corps group before us has been generous enough to put all of the books on a flash drive and share them with us.  This has given me quick access to all the books I wanted to read but was never able to.  

There has been one hiccup.  Because of the humidity in this country (fluctuating between 70% and 100% year round), the Peace Corps Hostel has a drawer full of dead kindles.  We have personally gone through 2 Kindles before we figured out a proper way to keep them safe.  We started to ask anyone who was sending us a package to include the silica gel packs that come with most things (shoes, some electronics, beef jerky, etc.) to throw them in with whatever they sent us.  We then put our Kindles into a ziplock bag with the gel packs and have since been pretty lucky.  We found out that after a few weeks the packs stop working efficiently, so to keep them fresh you can put them in the oven at 300 degF for 10 to 15 min to dry them out.  If you are looking for a more permanent solution, I’ve heard good things about the Pelican case that can be bought at R.E.I.

Hybridlight (Solar Flashlight)

This solar flashlight is a great idea, but I am unsure of its practicality.  First things first, it claims to be waterproof, however when I tried to open the battery case, the plastic that protects the solar panel pulled away from the case and seems to have opened the “waterproof” part of the case.  Now when I place it in the sun you can see the condensation build up on the clear plastic.  Secondly, I’m not sure how long the battery is supposed to last on 8 hours of full sun, but it does not seem to last very long (possible humidity problem since it’s obviously not waterproof).  Lastly, the backup batteries that come with the flashlight are the very expensive, very hard to come by, flat batteries.  This is not very feasible for Africa where they only get their batteries from China.

This is still true 2 years in.  Because we have headlights, we tend to not use the other various forms of flashlights.  We almost never use this light, but it is still working and we’re planning to give it to someone here before we leave.  I don’t trust that in the hands of our Salonian friends this lights is going to last too long.



TechLite Lumen Master (Flashlight)

This is a freaking awesome flashlight.  It is the brightest thing that we have brought here and it runs on AAA batteries. This flashlight is arguably brighter than most headlights on cars in this country.  This is a hand-held flashlight that is great for looking at night wildlife and has been quite the pleasure to have here.   

Voyager Pro by Kaito (AM/FM//Weatherband/Shortwave Radio)

This radio has so many really cool options that I want to talk about.  It has a solar charger, a crank charger, charges using USB input, charges by using AC input, and lastly charges the internal batteries by using the AAA batteries (all of which can in turn charge an iPod or mp3 player [theoretically- I haven’t tried]).  On the backside of the solar panel (which flips up) there is a string of five LED lights that are perfect for eating dinner or grading papers. There is also a flashlight that makes it easy to look for something directly.  As far as functions on the radio, there are two alarms that can be set and an auto off function that can be set for anywhere up to 1.5 hours after the alarm goes off.  There are also 100 different presets you can program if you would like, but since there is also a number pad on the front of the radio, you could just punch in the radio station you desire.  This radio transmits AM, FM, Weather Band, and Shortwave.  If there were weather band stations in Sierra Leone, I could use the “Alert” function which would make the radio turn on any time there is a weather emergency broadcasting on the weather band.  There is also really good reception where we are in the Bo area, and the radio has a thermometer and barometer on it. 

It seems like for every good thing about this radio though, there is a bad thing.  For one, the first time I used the hand-crank feature, it popped off and all four screws were stripped. I wanted to try and fix this by taking the radio apart and trying to screw them in again with some super glue, but I could not get it apart without feeling like I was breaking it further.  I bought a larger antenna for the radio and after taking the antenna out, I realized that they had soldered the wire for the antenna to it and I had pulled the wire off from where it was soldered on (still works though).  Lastly, with all my solar charging devices, they take way longer to charge than what they claim in the instructions (this could be due to the humidity, which I have yet to see below 70% in the two months I have been here. They don’t call it rainy season for nothing!).

We now use this radio purely for the solar light capabilities.  This radio is a bit like the dog from Family Guy that is dragging its legs and barely able to stay alive.  We’re leaving this radio with our 14 year old neighbor for her to study at night and possibly listen to the local radio.  Just like the flashlight, I’m not sure this radio is going to last more than a few months in someone else’s care.

Tecsun FM/Shortwave/MW/LW DSP Receiver [radio]

This was the radio that my father-in-law said was the nice one, and he was definitely right. It doesn’t have the fancy gadgets the other one has, but as far as picking up radio stations it’s pretty killer.  This is a tech geek’s radio, where you actually have to pull out the operations manual to figure out what the hell you are doing, but as far as operations go, it wins outright over the other SW radio.  First thing, it has an antenna that is about 4 feet long.  This would be awesome in the states because we’d probably be able to pick up stations from 50 miles away in the flat lands of Ohio where they have much more powerful transmitters.  Here in Sierra Leone that antenna doesn’t pick up a whole lot (we have 1 FM station in town. That’s all. It broadcasts 7AM-11AM and 7PM-11PM daily. Outside of those hours, silence.)  The radio also came with a 15-foot-long flexible antenna that I spent some time last week feeding up the wall and connecting to our tin roof- now we get several stations, including the BBC, which is very exciting.  The first 3 weeks we were at site we didn’t really have news to speak of. Now we can tune into the BBC and fill up on US and International news. It’s been great to have this radio and we appreciate it quite a lot.

Still working two years in and was wonderful to have at site for two years.  Lara’s dad thought it was necessary to have a backup radio incase this one kicks the bucket, so right now we have two identical radios that we’re going to leave to the PCV that’s going to replace us. 

Soladec (USB Solar Charger)

This solar charger is super awesome.  It took some trouble shooting to figure out the problem, but I figured out that the humidity in fact is killing all my batteries.  I found this out by charging it with my computer USB and then keeping it in a ziplock bag.  I have taken it out to charge my speakers from 0% to 100% and it was still showing a green charge light.  I had read that this battery was able to charge an iPod 2.5 times and still be able to use the flashlight on the back.  The flashlight is composed of five LEDs that have ballooned plastic over each of them.  This makes it possible to completely illuminate a room with no problems.  Only downside to this is using the solar panel to charge, I have never been able to get it to fully charge (blame the humidity).

This update was prior to the wonder that is the dry season.  I have since been able to put this charger out in the sun and get a full charge in a day.  It in fact does charge iPods 2.5 times and the flashlight attached with it is used quite often when we have company because of its amazing ability to illuminate the whole room.  The only problem I’ve run into with having this solar panel (or any panel for that matter) is your neighbors will constantly ask you if you can charge things for them.  It can be trying, but you’ll learn how to say no pretty quickly.

SunPak Solar Charger (On loan)

I will have to update this one later, but it was $7 to purchase it and it seemed to be worth every freakin penny.  I will talk to the PCT we lent it to and see what she thinks of this.

After talking to this person, I found out that she left it outside to charge and it was stolen pretty quickly.  I still think this would be a great purchase because of its price.

GoalZero Solar Charger (On loan)

Gifted to us from Lara’s brother and the claims of charging an iPod in 1 hour is pretty close (due to the massive size of the panels).  Only complaint, there is no battery pack that it charges, which means you can only use it when the sun is out (a battery is available as an extra feature that I’ve seen fellow PCVs had) and if you don’t have full sun it will in fact draw power from your iPod, so this needs to be monitored closely.  All in all though, it’s a really cool product.

The person who I loaned this to was too afraid to leave it outside alone, so she said she did not use it frequently.  She said the few times she did use it, it worked well but the need to keep it in the sun and in eye shot was pretty strenuous.  From the other volunteers that I’ve seen with this solar panel I’ve heard that it’s a pretty nice to work with if you have that spare battery pack.

GoalZero Speakers

So grateful that Lara’s brother Eric loves music like he does because I would not have thought to get good quality sounding speakers prior to coming here.  This has made watching movies awesome and listening to music at night incredibly nice.  At one point they even used these speakers to show a movie to a room of 60+ people about malaria and it worked great.  The speakers use a wooden box to resonate the bass and they make any movie watching experience much greater.  They have an internal battery that can be charged by a micro USB input.  I have successfully been able to watch a movie and listen to two hours’ worth of music on one charge.  One thing that could make this better is if they would have made the battery bigger in the speakers and made an output such that I would have been able to charge my devices.  It is because of this that I leant out the Goal Zero Solar charger as opposed to any other ones that had internal batteries.

Two years in and this was one of the best things we have here.  We use these every day for hours on end.  It has been a wonderful thing to have here.

Power Film Solar (AA/AAA Solar Charger)

This has been a very useful tool in keeping the many (Read: boku) flashlights charged.  I use this charger to charge AAA and AA batteries and it so far has worked out perfectly. People have envied my charger because it folds up so small.  It uses six flexible panels to charge 2 or 4 batteries.  It claims to charge them in 3.5 hours for 2 batteries and 6.5 hours for 4 batteries, but once again, the time has taken much longer than they claim. Again, I will reassess this in the dry season when it actually falls below 90% humidity.  All in all though, this is a great product and I am very happy to have it here in country.

We have found that with repeated folding and unfolding of the panel, the wires can wear and break.  We have had one of these panels break and we want to find someone to solder it back together.  However, when this panel was working it was wonderful.  Because our headlights and camera run on AA and AAA batteries, we use this nearly every day.


Chinese Adapter/Power Strip (Bought in country)

I bought this power strip at a small wooden stand that was selling all sorts of electronics. They had this power strip that was made in China and has five three-prong outlets on top and 10 two-prong outlets on the sides.  It also came with a voltage meter on the top and 5 on/off switches for each set of plugs.  After one use, something arched when I had plugged it in and it fried the voltage meter (common problem with 220 volts it turns out). When I went to purchase this product, the seller gave me the price of Le 38 000 ($8.77). Because this is a haggle economy, I said Le 15 000 ($3.46).  We bantered back and forth for a bit and eventually ended at Le 25 000 ($5.77).  So far this has been my most exciting and most functional purchase in Sierra Leone because you are able to use any plug on all the outlets on the surge protector.  Also, it’s a freaking surge protector!  There is a real problem with the surges coming from the completely rigged generators that they run here.  This power strip seems to have gone missing somewhere along our trip to site, so we bought a new, smaller one last time we went to Bo.  The smaller one cost Le 10,000 and has 3 outlets. 

Super cheap and easy to break.


Tuesday, April 15, 2014

What's in a Name




Post by Lara

14th April 2014

We’ve certainly used our native names on the blog before, but I’m not sure we ever gave a good explanation of how we got our names, what they mean, or how much we love them now.  In our 3rd or 4th week with our host family, they sat down one evening and gave us the names Gbessay Jalloh  (That’s Lara) and Abubakar Jalloh (Kevin).  Both of us were named for members of our host dad’s family—his elder brother and his mother.  Jalloh is not a Mende surname—it’s Fullah, because our host father is half Mende and half Fullah. 
Gbessay is a bit tough for an American to pronounce—because <gb> makes a different sound from a plain <g> or <b>. You have to shape your mouth like you’re about to pronounce a hard “g”, and then say a ”b” instead.  Gbessay is a Mende name traditionally given to a child born after twins.  The twins themselves are named Gina and Sao [FYI, the Gbessay is also considered one of the twins.  I’m not positive that they know “twin” means two….or that they care]. This way of naming twins is apparently a common concept in a lot of West African countries and other Sierra Leonean tribes as well. Our friend Eric who came from Burkina Faso is also a Gbessay, but of course his tribe gives the child born after twins a different name.  When people around here find out my name is Gbessay, they usually ask me if I’m a twin, to which I usually respond, “yes,” because it’s easier than explaining that I got the name after an important person in my host family who is a twin.  Sometimes the question is followed up by, “where are your twin siblings?” to which I tend to respond, “In America” [so FYI big brothers of mine—most of my acquaintances here assume you’re twins. Hehe.]  Not only do twins (and their next sibling) have special names, they’re also considered to have special powers, and the Gbessay has more magical powers than the twins, including healing abilities, smarts, and talent.  Even though many of our friends know I’m not really born after twins, they like my “boldness” and smarts, and they say the name fits me pretty well.
Abubakar is a pretty common Muslim name around here, and also the name of one of the important figures in early Islam.  Abubakar was the prophet Mohamed’s (PBUH) father-in-law—the father of the prophet’s favorite wife, Khadija.  Kevin’s name, Abubakar Jalloh, doesn’t really sound like a Mende name—we tend to be told alternately that it’s a “Muslim name” (which is true) or that it’s a “Fullah name” (also true).  That’s not easy though, because Kevin is not in fact a Muslim and does not speak a word of the Fullah language, so we have to repeatedly explain to people that even though he has a Fullah/Muslim name, he is more of a Mende by tribe.  In our time here, Kevin has definitely grown into his name, and even earned himself some nicknames, including Abu, Bockarie, Bakarr, and sometimes ABJ, which is what we call the uncle he’s named after. 
I don’t know when it happened, but at some point during our time here, we really adopted our names.  Any time I hear someone yell “Gbessay!” my head turns—and frequently, I’m not the person being called.  Kevin’s the same way. After some time at our site, we noticed that the small chorus of “Pumoi! Pumoi!” [White person! White person!] that followed us around got replaced by “Abubakar Gbessay!”  We much prefer the second exclamation to the first. It’s funny to note, though, that a lot of the small children in our town will call both of our names even if only one of us is around—or better yet, I’ll occasionally walk down the street to the tune of “Abubakar! Abubakar!” which usually elicits a response along the lines of, “Where is Abubakar? I don’t see him.”  Abubakar is a strictly male name, whereas Gbessay is a unisex name—so we understand a bit better when kids call Kevin Gbessay.
Receiving Mende names was a big step for us in feeling like we belong in this country, and in the nearly 2 years we’ve had those names, we’ve grown into them as if they were our own.  I don’t think I’ll be going by “Gbessay” in the US—I still love my given name and will be glad to answer to it once I’m back in the states.  But in a very real way, I’m not exactly the same person here that I am in the states—I think just about everyone here experiences a personality shift while living abroad.  Because of that, I’m glad that “African me” has a name to go with her unique language, culture, and personality.

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Idioms!






Post by Lara

26 March 2014

We’ve spoken a bit on this blog about the language barrier we face here in Sierra Leone, even though English is one of the official languages and is the official language of instruction in schools. Still, the English spoken here is most definitely not American English, and doesn’t even closely resemble British English in a lot of ways (Someday we’ll show you guys a video of us speaking Sierra Leone English—it’s a bit embarrassing for us, but I hear it’s funny to watch).  Of course, anywhere you have a language barrier you run into the problem of idioms—some of them just don’t translate into another cultural or linguistic experience.  Below are some commonly-used American idioms and phrases that we’ve come to learn don’t really work here:

Use your indoor voice – We like to joke that in Sierra Leone, there are exactly two volumes: high, and off.  This is often true in spoken language, too.  We used to think people were fighting all the time, but as we mastered Krio and became more familiar with Mende and Salone culture, we came to realize that in a lot of cases, the people yelling are actually agreeing with each other.  The exception is when a person is asking for something—then, manners dictate that you speak quietly. Almost too quietly to be heard, much of the time. Still, whether one is speaking loudly or quietly has absolutely no bearing on whether they are inside or out—thus, imploring someone to use their “indoor voice” would just be met with confusion.

Good fences make good neighbors – Neighbors here are basically extended family, especially in multi-house compounds.  We, for instance, share a house with a family of 4.  The 2 sides of the house (parlours, bedrooms, and verandahs) are separated by a wall, but the back yard where we cook, do laundry, and spend our afternoons in the shade, is shared.  Thus, most of our days are spent with another family occupying a space that blends into our own.  Instead of “good fences make good neighbors,” folks here like to say, “gud neba bete pas fawe fambul” (a good neighbor is better to have than faraway family).  Kevin and I have found ourselves remembering the last two places we lived in the US, both of which had next door neighbors, all of whom we knew very little about.   The last house we lived in, we never exchanged words with any of the next door neighbors at all.  Now, on the contrary, we greet all 4 of the neighbors by name every morning when we wake up, and every afternoon coming home from school.  I’m fairly sure the American proverb would be lost on our neighbors here.

Skating on thin ice – As it turns out, when you live between 7 and 8 degrees north of the equator and within 200 feet of sea level, you don’t see a whole lot of ice.  The ice you do see is man-made, meant to be consumed, and melts about as quickly as the African sun hits it.  The concept of lawns covered in fluffy ice crystals that fell from the sky, or cars with a sheet of ice on them after a cold night, or a body of water whose entire surface could freeze over, is totally and entirely foreign to Sierra Leoneans.  Kevin actually tried translating the idiom once and all he could come up with was, “you’re standing on a thin stick”.  We’re not sure it registered.

That’s my name; don’t wear it out – I’ve found myself wanting to say this to people countless times over the last two years, especially when my name’s being shouted by a line of children who all want me to personally greet them, or people walk into the staff room while I’m grading papers and say, “Mrs. Flaute”…and then nothing else.  In the local culture, greeting people is important, so it’s more polite to interrupt someone to say hello than to leave them alone. Still, calling someone’s name is not technically a greeting—it’s more like an invitation for them to greet you, or an acknowledgement that they’re in the same room.  Either way, I’m fairly certain that names cannot be “worn out” here, so we smile and say hi and move along with our day.