Broken Record
Post by Lara
3rd December 2013
The other day as I made the roughly 10 minute walk from our
house to our friend Millicent’s, I had the same conversation 4 times:
Them: Gbessay, good morning!
Me: Good morning!
Them: Where is Abubakar?
Me: He’s at the house.
The above conversation, and variations of it (i.e. “he’s at
school, teaching, seeing as it’s a Tuesday morning and he teaches every weekday
morning”) is one that we both have several times a day. We’ve even been asked
where our spouse is while we’re standing next to each other.
It turns out, we’ve had a lot of conversations a lot of
times over the course of the last year and a half. Pretty much the exact same
conversation. Here are some more examples
of discussions that we have a whole lot here:
Mende Niceties
Below is basically the
same conversation we have with everyone we know every time we see them:
Them: Abubakar, bi waa? [Abubakar, are you up?]
Kevin: Aaaa. Bi sie. [Yes. Thank You]
Them: Bi gahun yena? [How is your body?]
Kevin: Kaye Ngewo Ma [Thanks be to God]
Them: Bi li ma mindo lo? [Where are you going?]
Kevin: Sukui lo. [School]
Them: Ke, maa lo hue! [Well, we will see again!]
Kevin: Ohhh, maa lo hue [Yes, we will see again.]
Obama!
Sierra Leoneans (and
from what we can tell pretty much all Africans), as a general rule, love
Obama. We had a ton of conversations of this sort during the 2012 election, when Sierra Leone was also holding a presidential election:
Them: Where are you from?
Lara: I’m from America.
Them: I love America! The president of America is my
brother, Barack Obama!
Lara: Yes.
Them: How do you see Barack Obama?
Lara: Well, I like him.
Them: Good! I like him too.
This is Africa
Before we came to Sierra Leone, we watched the movie Blood
Diamond starring Leonardo Di Caprio.
While I can’t really speak to the accuracy of the storyline and I don’t
remember the movie in explicit detail, one part of the film is memorable
because it gets repeated to us all the time—Leo and his colleagues who are South
African mercenaries have a catch phrase of sorts: TIA (This is Africa). I can’t
even begin to tell you how many people have used those three words to justify
basically every idiosyncrasy of life here.
A few “TIA” topics that come up several times a week if not daily are
time, weather, bribery, and eating rice.
The funny part about it is that these are not necessarily pan-African
phenomena. For instance, in other African countries, beans are the staple food.
In yet others, bread is. Still, if you
ask a Sierra Leonean, Africans eat rice.
Being a bigger landmass than North America, Africa obviously has a whole
lot of different climates going on, but when I tell my neighbor the heat is
getting to me, his immediate response is “This is Africa!” Here are some specifics:
Time
Not only are Sierra Leoneans notoriously bad time keepers—they
totally love to talk about it. This morning Lara had the following conversation
with a fellow teacher:
Mr. Kallon – People here have no respect for time. When we
say you should turn in your exams by this date, they wait a week before turning
them in.
Lara – Yes, I’ve noticed that.
Mr. Kallon – But it’s not the same where you come from, is
it?
Lara – No, not at all.
Mr. Kallon – Well, this is Africa—here, we do not respect
time.
The Weather
It’s funny to note that here in Salone there are only 2
seasons: rainy and dry, and so if you know what time of year it is you can
generally predict what the weather will be like with a fair degree of accuracy.
That doesn’t stop us from talking about it with everyone we know though. Oh and by the way, if it’s under 80 degrees
and/or cloudy, it’s “cold”.
Kevin: Mr. Fofanah, how are you today?
Mr. Fofanah: Well, I’m trying to be fine, but the rain is
making it difficult.
Kevin: Oh, I like the rain
Mr. Fofanah: You like the rain? Well we Africans do not like
it. It is cold.
Kevin: It gets much colder where I come from.
Mr. Fofanah: Oh, that’s why you like the cold!
Bribery and Other Forms of Corruption
It’s certainly not everyone in Sierra Leone who practices
corruption…but it’s common enough that you start to get used to hearing about
it. Some teachers will “sell” grades to
their students, or make them do work at their homes as part of their grade. Some police officers (as in, a lot of them) accept
a few thousand Leones to look the other way when a motorbike driver isn’t
wearing a helmet, or a car driver doesn’t have a license. What we’ve found from talking to our friends
and colleagues is that a lot of people, though they may not approve of these
practices, feel a total lack of efficacy when it comes to fighting
corruption. Because of that and also
because they know we come from somewhere different, we find ourselves
discussing corruption a lot, and the conversation usually goes something like
this:
Lara – So…the driver can just pay the person at this road
block and then he won’t get a ticket for overloading the motorcar?
Passenger next to Lara – Yes. You see how people are in this
country? Only interested in money.
Lara – Hmm. But isn’t it dangerous to have the vehicle
loaded this way?
Passenger – Oh yes. This is Africa—we’re only managing.
Lara - …Ok…
Corporal Punishment
Without
going into too much detail, let me just say that corporal punishment is
practiced here in Sierra Leone, both at home and at school (though of
course the way people discipline children varies from school to school
and home to home). When we first arrived here, we were asked all the
time how we felt about corporal punishment and we tended to give answers
akin to the one below:
Mr. Wai - In America, you don't beat children, do you?
Lara - Well, they're not allowed to beat children in schools, and most
people don't beat their children at home. You can go to jail for beating
a child.
Mr. Wai - Wow! Well, here we have stubborn African children. We have to discipline them or they won't respect us.
Lara
- We discipline our children in America too-- but corporal punishment
is illegal, so we discipline them in different ways, such as making them
work or sending them out of school.
Mr. Wai - Oh, ok.
Eating Rice
As I mentioned above, Sierra Leoneans eat rice as a staple
food, and some of them don’t know that other countries have different staples.
They also tend to be confused when we try to explain to them that there isn’t
necessarily a staple food in the US—we have so much variety there. We’ve had more conversations about rice than
I’d care to count. Here’s an example of
a recent conversation with our good friend Old Meh:
Old Meh – So, I want to go back to the office and cook.
Kevin – That’s fine—I know you must be hungry after working
today.
Old Meh – Yes, man. I’m really hungry. I ate gari this morning, but you know, This is
Africa, so we have to eat rice.
Kevin – Oh yes—I know if you haven’t eaten rice then it
feels like you haven’t eaten at all today.
Old Meh – Exactly! So, I’m going to go now and cook my rice.